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Lane is among the growing numbers of single black women involved in online dating.

According to a recent News study, about 42 percent of black women have never been married twice the percentage of white women.

"About 90 percent of people [whom we work with] had a racial preference, and about 85 percent of that was for white people," she says.

"Black women and Asian men have it the worst."I'm not a black woman or an Asian man, but I'm a first generation Indian-American woman. " For example, after asking where I lived and how I was planning to spend the weekend, a Tinder user I matched with jumped right into: "So what is your ethnicity? The classic question," he began nonchalantly guessing: "Indian or Sri Lankan? I grew up with these kind of questions living in Laredo, Texas, and later in college at the University of Texas at Austin. Race had yet again become the conversation starter."If you accept the premise that most people are people of goodwill, which I think is reasonable, I don't think people are adopting these preferences because they really dislike other races or out of a racial thing," says Rudder.

Theoretically, the online world offers greater odds of finding a partner than does a chance meeting at a party.

Being online is like going to a party without encountering all the people who trap you in boring conversations.

The last includes more substantial personal profiles.

It was your stereotypical online nightmare, said Lane, 30, of Brooklyn.

"A guy asked me if I was part white, and I was like, ' No,' and he was like, ' Oh, I thought you were,'" she says. By simply swiping left or right on a certain profile without a lot of context besides looks (and let's be honest, how many people are reading profiles? African-American investment banker Justin*, 44, hardly deals with these kind of questions or comments from women, suggesting that this is a male-oriented issue. "I do have a high attraction to white women, so I'm not really asking them where they're from," he says.

"But they're also not asking me, ' Oh are you African?

Lane appreciated his modesty and was excited about meeting him.

After 10 minutes, there was a soft tap on her shoulder.

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